Sex therapists Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson join Christophe and Liz for conversation about sex, including a discussion about the far-reaching political and social implications of America's ignorance and miseducation of human sexuality. Julia and Jeremiah are co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership. They're on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook at @sexvangelicals.____________________________________________________Links:Sexvangelicals Substack: https://sexvangelicals.substack.com/____________________________________________________Connect with us:Email – RadicallyHumanPod@gmail.comInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

We have an off-the-cuff chat about how events, like the recent shooting of Ralph Yarl, affect Black folks in America. We discuss how marginalized groups feel the emotional impact of seeing people like them being treated as less than human, and talk about how to show up as a real ally.____________________________________________________Connect with us:Email – RadicallyHumanPod@gmail.comInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

In our second episode of “the water we grew up in” Christophe shines a light on the racist dog-whistles that are commonly used to deflect from real issues.____________________________________________________Connect with us:Email – RadicallyHumanPod@gmail.comInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

This episode kicks off a new series called “The Water We Grew Up In.” The series examines aspects of White supremacy and patriarchy that even we progressives don't generally notice because they are so fully integrated into the systems of our daily lives. We're like fish in water. We're talking about the sorts of intolerance that are more subtle and seem more innocuous than the caricatures of hate reflected in organizations like the KKK and the GOP.In this inaugural episode, Liz identifies the ways in which we've all been indoctrinated by patriarchal myths of romance, and the damage that results.

Difo & Liz talk about the moralization of capitalistic “success.” Why does society judge the unhoused, those living in poverty, and feel entitled to police the way they spend their time and money? How can we, as progressives, recognize our own programming, and move past it?____________________________________________________Connect with us:Email – RadicallyHumanPod@gmail.comInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

What can menstrual cycles teach us about allyship? In this episode, Liz & Christophe discuss how centering experiences of traditionally “othered” folks leads to a more equitable and just world. Learning about periods really CAN make men better allies. How can we extend that to racial justice? And beyond?____________________________________________________Connect with us:Email – RadicallyHumanPod@gmail.comInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

EP 100 - This is your brain on capitalismLiz and Difo welcome the new year with a check-in. They discuss the perils of capitalist culture, how we can live our best lives within these systems, and the problem with free will.____________________________________________________Connect with us:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

EP 99 - How to talk to your racist uncle/ kitchen table activismLiz and Difo talk about the holidays - traditions, mental health, difficulties, joys. They share strategies for standing up for their progressive values at the dinner table and how to have fruitful social justice conversations with family over the holidays.___________________________________________________Show notes:Jennifer Rosen-Heinz for Parents Magazine: https://www.parents.com/kids/responsibility/racism/what-to-do-if-the-racist-is-your-family-member/Desiree Adaway: https://adawaygroup.com/desiree-adaway/____________________________________________________Connect with us:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

EP 98 - Midterms and the Importance of Hope (aka the *new* greatest generation)Christophe and Liz react to the 2022 midterm results, and discuss the importance of hope: reasons they still have it, and how to keep it alive.___________________________________________________Show notes:https://www.americanprogress.org/article/americas-electoral-future-3/https://www.npr.org/2022/11/15/1136563709/young-voters-helped-democrats-win-the-senate-and-other-midterm-elections____________________________________________________Connect with us:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45Apple Pods – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radically-human/id1526238241

We discuss Karl Popper’s “paradox of tolerance” and how it applies to our work as progressives. We also share our thoughts (and stress!) about the upcoming midterms.—-----------------------------------------------------------------Show Notes:“The Paradox of Tolerance” – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_toleranceWhere to vote – https://www.vote.org/polling-place-locator/Voting guide – https://votesaveamerica.com/be-a-voter/Find your gun sense candidates – https://gunsensevoter.org/candidates/—-----------------------------------------------------------------Find us on:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/radically__human/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theradicalsecularSpotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/7xI4LWo5AKI4BUZPorYMzS?si=e13739db3be14c45

Difo & Liz talk with Sandra Fraser-Maurer about how the overturning of Roe is impacting mental health in America.—-----------------------------------------------------------------Sandra Fraser-Maurer, MA, CD, E-RYT - Clinical Mental Health Counselor and trauma-informed Yoga Teacher Find her on instagram @sandrafmaurerSandra’s Counseling Website - https://mindfulfamiliestherapy.com/sandra-maurerSandra’s Yoga Therapy Website - https://www.terrafirmampls.comPostpartum Support International - https://www.postpartum.netACES Score: About - https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.htmlEvaluate yourself - https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean

Difo and Liz react to the protests that have erupted in Iran after the "morality police" murdered a 22-year-old Kurdish woman named Mahsa Amini, and they compare the oppressive systems in Iran to those in the United States. Difo and Liz also discuss why most self-identified "White Liberals" are really "White Moderates" and they consider how everyday people can and should be activists in their own lives.______________________________Radical Secular:PatreonEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Difo and Liz connect with Zoe Heath to expose the GOP's war on the LGBTQ+ community, and to discuss what Zoe is doing, and what we allies should be doing, to fight back.______________________________Zoe Heath, Sussex County Pride founder and executive director Find on Instagram at @zoequality and on Twitter and tiktok @zoequalitynjSupport your pride where it matters most by donating https://venmo.com/code?user_id=3276596718862336443&created=1664327276.50331&printed=1______________________________Radical Secular:PatreonEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Christophe and Liz discuss how the relentless anxiety of life in a capitalist environment can undermine happiness starting at the individual level and scaling up to the societal level.______________________________PatreonEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Christophe and Liz react to the victory in Kansas on abortion rights and the passage of the Inflation Reduction Act, consider why it's so important to find reasons to hope, and reflect on this episode's Self Care Tip Of the Day.______________________________Show notes:‘No’ prevails: Kansas votes to protect abortion rights in state constitutionUnexpected deal would boost Biden pledge on climate changeWhat's in the Biggest Piece of Climate Legislation in US History?______________________________PatreonEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Christophe and Liz define "Radical Empathy" in the context of social justice. Before that, they reflect on the surprising lack of catastrophic news over the previous two weeks. And they discuss what average people can do to fight for social justice, including how to support friend of the podcast, Coral Anika Theill's, fight against theocracy and patriarchy.______________________________Show notes:Dehumanizing Always Starts With Language, by Brené Brown on May 17, 2018Coral Anika Theill's WebsiteSupport Coral______________________________PatreonEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Christophe introduces the podcast's transition into a new phase. Christophe and Liz discuss the emotional and practical challenges of navigating the post Roe, post truth, post democracy (?) environment in which we progressives find ourselves.

Abortion and JuneteenthThe Radical Secular is sponsored in part by Kanibal & Co.(00:00) Intro & T-shirts(06:23) Christophe, Liz and Sean react to the overturning of Roe v Wade.(46:40) Difo and Liz. Gun policy. Catching up about Alaska. Appreciating the little things.(01:01:59) Juneteenth.(01:15:54) The consequences of ideological purity.(01:23:50) Asking good-faith questions from a position of privilege. Navigating sensitive conversations surrounding past and present oppression. Privilege doesn't mean the absence of suffering.(01:47:05) Wrapup and Outro______________________________Show notes:We’re Not Going Back to the Time Before Roe. We’re Going Somewhere WorseJuneteenth: The History of a HolidayWhat Is Juneteenth?Anti-Racism Course with Rachel Ricketts______________________________PatreonWebsiteEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn

Body CountThe Radical Secular is sponsored in part by Kanibal & Co.(00:00) Intro and T-shirts(6:45) Gun violence death statistics and rationalizations. Economic impact. Survivor guilt. America's violent history. Domestic violence.(21:53) Examining the "why?" How many weapons do Americans own? A public health analysis. Comparison to other nations. The role of history denial. The deliberate suppression of gun violence research. GOP science denial strategies.(39:30) Thom Hartmann's "The Hidden History of Gun Violence and the Second Amendment." What was the rationale for the second amendment, and who was covered by it? The connection to slavery and Jim Crow and the Ku Klux Klan. The European invasion. The settler myth. Demonization and victim-blaming of the Native American population. Motivations of Thomas Jefferson and how other enslavers changed the text of the second amendment. Reinterpretation of the second amendment by the Heller decision. The making of the gun myths through glorification of violent outlaws. Teddy Roosevelt's slander of Native Americans.(01:18:42) A single gunshot ended Reconstruction. Post-reconstruction disarming of black freedmen. The philosophical implications of open carry. The NRA failure to defend black people with CCW gun permits. How guns were treated in the "old West."(01:25:34) Demographics and motivation of mass shooters. Why have political leaders failed to act?(01:41:17) The relationship between citizens, government, and society. The creation of two Americas following the Civil Rights Act. Reagan's delegitimization the US government. The marriage of gun ownership with opposition to a government of universal civil rights. The GOP death-cult feedback loop between shootings and fear that leads to more right-wing voting.(01:53:03) A proposal for common-sense gun regulation and buybacks (that's certain not to pass).(01:57:15) Wrapup and Outro______________________________Show notes:GUN VIOLENCE ARCHIVEThe Economic Cost of Gun ViolenceThe Hidden History of Guns and the Second Amendment by Thom HartmannNumber of mass shootings in the United States between 1982 and June 2022, by shooter's race or ethnicityTwo Professors Found What Creates a Mass Shooter. Will Politicians Pay Attention?Republican Congressman Quits Race After Backlash Over His Gun StanceA striking number from a new poll on guns______________________________PatreonWebsiteEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter:...

Intergenerational Trauma and BuffaloThe Radical Secular is sponsored in part by Kanibal & Co.(00:00) Intro and T-shirts(8:11) Difo and Liz - Christophe Difo and Liz Wilson. The psychological toll of recent events. Radical empathy. Holding pain without being destroyed by it. Genetic changes caused by trauma. Black culture as a survival strategy. Recognizing the importance of women's studies. American law and culture have systematically excluded nonwhites and women. Progressive white men have a special responsibility. The deep impact of the Buffalo massacre on the black community. The need for introspection among progressives. The long-term impact of women being second-class citizens. Present crises are reflective of events and decisions made many years in the past. Finding the right balance for engagement with news and social media.(01:18:53) Joe, Christophe and Sean react to the Difo and Liz Segment. White progressive men face anger from their own race and gender, in addition to justified criticism from marginalized groups they're trying to help. The epigenetics of chronic trauma. Post-traumatic slave syndrome. Confronting the relentless American messaging toward people of color: "you do not belong." The continuing futility of efforts toward gun reform.(01:53:15) Wrapup and Outro______________________________Show notes:3 Ways Intergenerational Trauma Still Impacts The Black Community TodayImpacts of Intergenerational Trauma: How #MeToo Affects Us AllWomen: What We Pass DownStudy of Holocaust survivors finds trauma passed on to children's genes______________________________PatreonWebsiteEmail: theradicalsecular@gmail.comInstagram: @radical_secularFacebookTwitter: @RadicalSecularPodcastAll standard podcast venues: Apple, Google, Stitcher, Amazon, Gaana, Saavn